How To Help A Child Overcome Bullying

The prevalence of bullying is hard to ignore. Research indicates between twenty-five and thirty-three percent of children ages twelve to eighteen have experienced some form of bullying. Bullying should never be dismissed as simply 'kids being kids,' as it can have significant long-term consequences for victims, leading to loneliness, low self-esteem, depression, and anxiety. Children who are bullied often suffer academically and socially due to the stress caused by bullying. Bullied children may try to avoid the activities where the bullying occurs, leading to decreased school and social participation. If your child is a victim of bullying, there are several steps you can take as a parent to work through the situation with them. Let's review these steps now!

Learn About The Situation

If you suspect your child is being bullied, first do what you can to understand the situation. Bullying typically happens when adults are not around, or when witnesses who are likely to speak up are not present. Many bullied children may be hesitant to speak up out of fear or embarrassment. It is important to get as many facts as possible, so encourage open and honest communication with your child. Try to learn about the situation from as many sources as possible, including your child, friends, or other trusted adults. Do not rush to judgment until you have had time to learn about the situation.

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Encourage Your Child To Express Themselves

Open communication with your child is key to understanding and dealing with a bullying problem. Encourage your child to express themselves so you can gain a full understanding of the situation. Your child should feel comfortable talking about the problem and how it makes them feel. You are your child’s ally in overcoming the bullying, and they need your encouragement. Allow your child to process their feelings and talk through the situation when they are comfortable. Provide an understanding ear, and ask them how you can help. If they need more help than you can offer, a counselor can be a valuable resource.

The way in which a victim responds to bullying is crucial. Read on to reveal how to teach this to your child.