Signs Of A Sociopath

Everyone wants something. Most will find ways to get what they want, but what separates individuals is how far they are willing to go to get what they want. Sociopaths are extreme individuals who will go to any extreme if they think they will be able to get what they want. They will often switch back and forth between appearing stable and triumphant to being the victim and assigning the blame for their actions on another. Sociopaths can often be mistaken for narcissists or psychopaths since they are similar on the surface, but neither preys on other individuals quite like a sociopath. When individuals dig below the surface, they will find distinct differences between sociopathy and other mental disorders.

They Are Superficial And Manipulative

Sociopaths use their manipulative social skills to get what they want. Sometimes they say certain things or do certain things that are, most of the time, found charming. However, most individuals don't say or do some of the things sociopaths are comfortable with saying or doing. They are superficial and manipulative in speech and behavior. They are very self-centered in their lives, but when they give their attention to others, it's sometimes hard to tell how self-involved they really are.

Few think the way sociopaths do; for them, extremes are the norm. They will come across as extraordinarily charming or extremely threatening, depending on what form of manipulation they think it will take, to get what they want. They observe what others want, what they like, and what is pleasing—this knowledge fuels their superficial charm, and their intelligence feeds their manipulative behavior. They know how to seek out the weak—lonely individuals or others with self-esteem issues are especially susceptible to their flattery and charm. Not all manipulative individuals are sociopaths, but sociopaths do manipulate (and prey on) the weaker.

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They Are Untruthful And Insincere

The majority of individuals lie occasionally, but sociopaths are compulsive in comparison. As mentioned before, they make up big stories, and in the process, they tell many lies. They are extremely deceitful, and it's doubtful that what they say has much ground in the truth. They will go so far as to change their story each time they tell it if it's more convenient for them or keeps them out of trouble. Sociopaths are comfortable with risky behaviors, so lying is something they have become comfortable with. They become so comfortable with deceit that they don't come across as nervous.

They lie to the world continuously; they have been participating in 'lifelong misbehavior,' continually streaming lies and manipulating others. They have little interest in the truth, especially if it keeps them from what they want. They don't have much insight, especially into whatever they could be doing wrong. They are untruthful and insincere because it has become the norm for the sociopath. A sociopath will have individuals believing in the strength he (or she) doesn't have, thus believing their lies are truths.

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They Lack Empathy And Remorse

Sociopaths don't experience emotions like most individuals, and they surely don't have much compassion for their fellow humans. They lack the ability to share in the emotions of others, although they can be good actors. What is most disturbing is it's common for sociopaths to take pleasure in the pain of others. Most individuals cringe when they see others in pain because they remember or imagine what it would feel like. They certainly don't smile or laugh at that pain.

Speaking of pain, don't expect sociopaths to show any remorse for the pain they cause or the evil they do. They lack empathy and remorse because they simply don't experience shame or emotions associated with it. They will cause pain indirectly with their lies and manipulation. They will even intentionally hurt others. Most often sociopaths will hurt others with words and actions in ways that don't involve physical harm. However, they can sometimes be aggressive, uninviting, and quite dangerous. Their relationships often suffer since sociopaths can't relate, since they have an incapacity for love.

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They Don't Employ Delusional And Irrational Thinking

Individuals depend on reason and rational methods of thinking to build whatever they need to build. However, humans are also emotional creatures which dream big dreams and feel the best and worst of the body's emotions. Perhaps it is the inability to feel common emotions that make sociopaths so practical and logical. They do not act delusional, but this doesn't mean they do not have mental and emotional problems rooted in sociopathy. They are surprisingly very rational beings, but just because sociopaths are rational doesn't mean they are motivated by morals.

Sociopaths are dependent on rationalizations. Without them, their deceit might come to light. Delusional and irrational thinking doesn't help those rationalizations. Delusions of grandeur are more fitting of a narcissist. Irrational thinking is more common among those easily affected or swayed by their emotions, especially the particularly anxious and nervous. Sociopaths are more detached from their feelings, so they don't exhibit irrational forms of thinking or come across as delusional.

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They Exhibit Anti-Social Behavior

Sociopaths have trouble relating to others, partially because they don't (or act like they don't) care about anyone but themselves. Sociopaths do not love. In fact, they have been termed incapable of such things. Even their sex lives tend to be impersonal and poorly integrated. Sociopaths are extremely egocentric, even if no one recognizes it at first meeting them. This makes them very impersonal and unresponsive, unreliable in many ways, including not being present emotionally in any meaningful way.

Antisocial personality disorder (ASPD) is present in sociopaths, but not all of the individuals with this condition are sociopaths. Anti-social behavior is not the only criteria for diagnosing a sociopath, since individuals outside of sociopaths (like psychopaths) also exhibit forms of anti-social behavior. Additionally, those under eighteen can't be diagnosed with ASPD, but it is part of the criteria that the individual must have had a conduct disorder before fifteen. The behaviors they practice is against whatever system is working outside of them, perhaps because they think the world is against them.

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Have Unstable Relationships With Others

Individuals with antisocial personality disorder, sociopaths, tend to have unstable relationships with others. Some may be able to maintain friendships or marriages for long periods, but the relationships are often draining for the other parties involved. Sociopaths struggle to empathize with others. They tend to manipulate events to suit their own needs, even if this causes harm to come to others. Some may also lash out often, which can lead to turbulent interpersonal relationships. They may appear charming and interesting on the surface, but then give way to much more turbulent behavior once a person has gotten close to them. It can be difficult to rely on a sociopath, and it can also be difficult to address their behavior in a way that promotes real change. Some individuals find the person with antisocial personality disorder will make an apparent effort at first, but it soon becomes clear that's just a renewed manipulation tactic.

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Often Abrasive And Callous

Sociopaths can often be abrasive and callous, showing an ongoing disregard for the feelings and desires of others. They are more likely to be unkind to individuals who have the same amount of power or less power than them. When interacting with those who have more power, they tend to be charming and manipulative. Because of this, sociopaths may climb corporate ladders and seem to excel in managerial positions. They don't have a great deal of concern for the feelings of others, and many don't care to develop that concern. They may view feelings and boundaries as irrational, and they may be impatient with these things. They may also fail to care about the emotional consequences of their actions as long as the end goal is accomplished. There's an ongoing callous disregard for the wellbeing and mental health of others. Their callous behavior may show in their actions, or it may be part of the way they talk to those around them.

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Can Be Impulsive

Sociopaths can be impulsive and reckless in their behaviors. Though they may appear intelligent, manipulative, and intensely rational, they may also engage in irrational behaviors and tendencies. In fact, many who meet the 'sociopath' label will struggle with addiction at some point in their lives. Compulsive behaviors may lead them to engage in drug abuse, alcohol abuse, dangerous sex practices, or gambling. They may also be impulsive in how they react to others, with some of their behaviors being explosive or volatile rather than enacted with consideration for the consequences. Not all impulsive behaviors will result in addiction. It's possible for an individual to do hard drugs or engage in unprotected sex without having a mental dependence on such practices. But sociopaths may feel as though they're 'missing' something, like they're devoid of human connection and happiness. When addictive behaviors fill the emptiness, it's easy to develop a mental dependence. Sociopaths also might struggle to care about the concerns of others because it doesn't bother them to worry other people.

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Gets Bored Easily And Frequently

A sociopath often gets bored easily and frequently. This is partly because they need to experience intense mental stimulation to feel engaged in activities. Some individuals might feel like they can't feel any pleasure or interest unless they're actively interacting with something interesting. This means sociopaths are constantly searching for new things to capture their attention. The search is part of what predisposes them toward impulsive and addictive behaviors. Those with antisocial personality disorder often describe their boredom as being an emotional state of restlessness and agitation that won't abate until they find something to do. The feelings of emptiness can be unbearable, and they only tend to worsen with every passing moment. Some researchers theorize the constant boredom is due to an inability to make meaningful connections with others or the world surrounding them. This lack of presence in the world leads to feelings of detachment and disinterest. Researchers also theorize the search for stimulation occurs because boredom leads to self-reflection, and sociopaths can't stand to face themselves or their character flaws.

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Can Be Quick To Anger

Sociopaths can often be quick to anger. This anger may be due to agitation with others, but it's also often rooted in anxiety. A sociopath might go from calm to explosive anger seemingly without warning. Their temper might make people tiptoe around them or avoid conflict. Sociopaths struggle to engage in emotional regulation, so it's hard for them to keep their cool in a stressful situation. If they're confronted by an angry individual, they're more likely to respond with anger. Emotional outbursts are characteristic of a sociopath, particularly when the individual seems charming and manipulative the rest of the time. However, not everyone who is quick to anger meets the criteria for antisocial personality disorder and thus not for a sociopath. Some individuals might have another personality disorder, like borderline personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder. Irrational and explosive anger can also be a sign of a variety of other psychological and neurological disorders.