Hidden Red Flags: 10 Subtle Signs of Dementia You Need to Recognize Now
9. Declining Judgment or Decision-Making Abilities
Making the occasional silly purchase or missing a payment is hardly uncommon for anyone. Still, if you start noticing a series of poor choices—especially risky or out-of-character decisions—it may point to changes in the brain’s judgment center. This might look like falling for telemarketer scams, dressing inappropriately for the weather, or neglecting safety at home. Loved ones may struggle with budgeting, ignore expired foods in the fridge, or forget to lock doors. Financial mistakes are especially prevalent, including paying bills twice or forgetting payments altogether. Even basic planning, like keeping shopping lists or setting up appointments, can become hard to manage. These aren’t about “bad habits” or carelessness, but rather the slow shift in how choices are made. If a pattern develops, it’s important to step in gently—both to ensure safety and to start a conversation about how to bolster support. Empowering, not lecturing, helps preserve dignity as roles begin to shift.
10. Withdrawal from Social Activities and Hobbies
It’s natural to slow down or crave more alone time as we age. What may signal something new is happening: a loved one loses interest in long-cherished hobbies, skips social gatherings for no clear reason, or simply lets self-care slip away. If a once-avid gardener hasn’t planted this year, or a bridge enthusiast begins dodging invitations, notice whether it’s about preference—or the activities themselves becoming too confusing or difficult. Early dementia can sap motivation or make routine pleasures feel unexpectedly overwhelming. You may spot a decline in grooming, housework, or general enthusiasm for daily life. Of course, depression and medical issues can cause these changes, too. What’s most telling is the broader pattern: when withdrawal pairs up with memory, communication, or other shifts on this list. A heartfelt “I miss doing this with you—how can I help?” can be a powerful opening to reconnect and offer meaningful help as needs evolve.
