Unhelpful Things to Say to Someone With Dementia

2. I just told you…: The Cycle of Repetition

Repetition is a common symptom of dementia, and it can be challenging for caregivers to address repeated questions or statements. Responding with “I just told you” can come across as dismissive or impatient, exacerbating feelings of confusion or inadequacy in the individual. Instead, it’s important to answer questions with patience and understanding, recognizing that repetition is a part of the condition. By maintaining a calm and reassuring demeanor, we can help reduce anxiety and reinforce a sense of security, ensuring that the person feels heard and valued, regardless of how many times a question is asked.