Unhelpful Things to Say to Someone With Dementia

Akanksha Sharma

11. It’s time for your medicine…”: Encouraging Autonomy

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While it’s important to ensure medication adherence, framing it as “it’s time for your medicine” can feel authoritarian and diminish autonomy. Instead, involve the individual in the process, offering choices or explanations about their treatment. This collaborative approach respects their autonomy and encourages active participation in their healthcare. By fostering a sense of control, we can enhance compliance and cooperation, ensuring that the individual feels involved and respected in decisions about their well-being. This not only improves adherence but also strengthens the caregiver-patient relationship.

Embracing Compassionate Communication

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In navigating the fog of memory, our words hold immense power. By avoiding these 11 phrases, we can create a more supportive and understanding environment for individuals with dementia. Each interaction is an opportunity to reinforce dignity, respect, and empathy, fostering connections that transcend cognitive barriers. Through patience, validation, and active listening, we can bridge the gap between us and our loved ones, ensuring that they feel valued and understood. As we embrace compassionate communication, we not only enhance their quality of life but also enrich our own, building relationships grounded in love and understanding.

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