Body Language Cues That Signal Danger (and How to Send Your Own Safe Signals)

18. The Power of Proximity: The Unspoken Bond

The distance two people maintain from each other can be a powerful indicator of their relationship. While cultural norms play a part, generally, people who stand close together share a sense of comfort and intimacy. This can be seen in a couple leaning in to whisper or two friends standing shoulder to shoulder. In contrast, if a person takes a deliberate step back or maintains an unusual distance, it could be a sign of discomfort, distrust, or a desire for a psychological boundary. Paying attention to this "bubble" of personal space can give you an immediate read on the dynamics of an interaction.

19. The Handshake: The First Impression in a Grip

A handshake is a brief but information-rich exchange. The quality of a handshake can immediately convey a person's confidence, honesty, or dominance. A firm, confident grip with full palm contact often signals sincerity and self-assurance. A weak, "limp" handshake can suggest a lack of confidence or engagement. Conversely, an overly forceful, bone-crushing grip can be a subtle power play, indicating a desire to dominate. Paying attention to this first point of contact can offer a glimpse into a person's character and intent before the conversation even begins.