Puberty Alarms: Red Flags Pediatricians Urge You Not to Ignore

Going Through the Tween Years with Grace

Puberty doesn’t follow a script—and neither should your response. These red flags aren’t warnings to panic; they’re invitations to pay attention. Behind every growth spurt, mood swing, or new obsession is a child quietly becoming themselves. And while these changes can be bewildering, they’re also windows—offering glimpses into your child’s evolving body, mind, and spirit. The tween years are often painted as turbulent, but with the right awareness, they can be a time of profound connection. Pediatricians agree: early recognition and honest conversations can ease confusion, build trust, and lay the groundwork for a healthier adolescence. So if something feels off, lean in—not with fear, but with curiosity. Be the steady hand as your child explores unfamiliar terrain. You don’t need to have all the answers. You just need to keep showing up—with open eyes, open ears, and a heart ready to grow alongside them.